The mention of visiting a swingers club (where couples swap partners for an evening) had come up a few times, and eventually we decided to take the plunge. We set our rules before we headed in, both extremely nervous, neither knowing what to expect. Once the kids were a little older and we were comfortable leaving them with a sitter, we started to re-ignite our social life, and began enjoying our weekends out again.
The bond we had enabled us to share ourselves and each other, and trust that our emotions and physical fun could be happily kept separate. Sexually we were very comfortable, and in our younger years dabbled in the world of swinging.
